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连着看了《Unbelievable》和《Athlete A》
都是佳作

不晓得是不是因为我是女的才如此感同身受
幸存者的每一个皱眉每一次沉默每一声叹息都让我心痛

摘抄几段impact statement(做plea bargain的话被告必须同意如果受害者愿意就可以做的当庭陈述)

"I have nightmares, I am scared all of the time, every minute of every day. My friends tried to help me but I have a hard time trusting people. I can't sleep, I'm in pain, I've lost weight, I've lost work, I've lost money. I have violent thoughts, never have violent thoughts before, ever. You think it's just one night, compare to all of the other minutes in my life, how could this one short incident make a difference. It does."

“But instead of protecting children, reporting the abuse you saw, you used your position of power, to manipulate and abuse as well, you knew I was powerless. I am here with all other women, not victims, but survivors, to tell you, face to face, your manipulation was over. We have a voice now, we have power now.”

而想追究法律责任是那么难
警员的冷漠逼你一遍一遍的复述
对幸存者生活百般彻查追求陈述逻辑圆满不然就是你编的
如果在系统内部投诉会告诉你都是正常流程然后羞辱你找你麻烦对你洗脑说问题都在你身上
甚至为了个人或者某个团体的名誉声誉利益而选择包庇掩盖假装没发生过
更不用说整个社会拒绝理解性侵幸存者的敌意排挤甚至攻击
但至少电视剧里/现实里这两个案子一个判了327.5年一个判了两个60年

其实我也就只能在概念上理解想象对自己身体的控制被完全剥夺的恐惧和随之而来的不安全感
但被当作物品的羞耻与不安却也常在我的生活里出现
地铁上遇到对到我手淫的也只敢闭上眼睛假装啥子都没发生然后祈祷快点忘记

啥子是我心目中的理想社会?
虽然还没想清楚但每个人都能感到安全应该榜上有名

但如果真的only women can relate
这个世界就太令人忧伤了

我今晚还是把阳台锁了再睡吧

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